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Looking back on my life, the little contact I had with anyone from the LGBTQ community was limited and defined by my skepticism, which I now realize stemmed from ignorance. Interestingly enough, I did not know Rose was trans when I first talked to her on the phone — I had her number before we ever met and was just getting to know her at the time. I moved quickly past my previous skepticism because I had already gotten comfortable with her and felt there was nothing to be skeptical about. Of my friends who know that my girlfriend is trans, many seemed to think I was attracted to her first for that reason, but the truth lies more in the fact that I saw her first simply as a woman, while recognizing being trans as an impactful part of her identity.

What Happens When Your Girlfriend Finds Out You're into Trans Women

What Happens When Your Girlfriend Finds Out You're into Trans Women

That might not sound like an astonishing concept to a cisgender person, or someone who identifies with the sex on their birth certificate. But when you are transgender, comfort and safety function differently. When I'm with my girlfriend, though, the frenzy slows to a measured waltz — a level of security in a relationship that seemed unattainable to me just a few years ago. As a teenager, I was simultaneously cognizant of my gender dysphoria and determined to ignore it, and the future always felt sort of hazy. Inflicted with a horrifying puberty that is not yours, you are expected to make life-altering decisions about a future which seems to grow dimmer all the time. Then entered a girl toward the end of my teenage years who, in spite of everything, gave me cause to imagine a future.

What everyone should understand about dating a trans woman

In order to spare my fellow trans women from the often harsh reality of our attempts at finding love, I wish the people who dated us would keep these things in mind:. Save the Bedroom Talk For the Bedroom. No one knows anything about her other than the fact that she was the first trans woman to receive genital reconstruction surgery. The Best way to find an answer for your questions is a Google Search. I Googled everything I wanted to know as I came to terms with my gender identity, so spare the textbook talk with a Google search, a book, or an actual classroom.
He was wrong. Instead, Owen's girlfriend was devastated, the 22 year old recalled. At first, she cried and interrogated him: Was he gay?